Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Just Thinking...

I love this world, the world of words and connecting to interesting, intelligent, beautiful women. I love your thoughts and ideas, I love the little peeks into your worlds. I love the stories of overcoming setbacks, observations, opinions, struggles, advice, humor, sadness - all the rich stuff of life, shared. I love your feedback and comments. I'm honored to be part of our little group, which I see as vibrant and enriching. Today I wanted to say that, and thank you all.

"Thank you" for being you.
Harry previously suggested a road trip. Can you imagine? That would be an awesome adventure with us all......







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InstaHoods






As a self styled anthropologist, I am fascinated by human group behaviors. Eisenhower's Highway Project impacted our nation in an enormous way, mind boggling way.

Prior to the development of highways, neighborhoods slowly evolved. A neighborhood grew around a source of employment, such as a factory. This neighborhood would reflect a socioeconomically similar group of people, houses and yards that a factory worker could afford. Or a neighborhood would be a cluster of farms, and another a group of merchants which would comprise a Main Street. A neighborhood might be a ghetto, a group of immigrants with family and neighbors from the old country, with a distinctive odor emminating from those blocks, as they all cooked their traditional foods. People worked in their neighborhoods, they shopped in their neighborhoods, and socialized in their neighboroods.



Each neighborhood was unique. Unique to it's purpose, people and geography.

Eisenhower's Highway Project changed dramatically what a neighborhood consisted of in our country. Highways not only connected previously unconnected people, but became a focus of life. Whole neighborhoods were developed, where? Right off the highway exits. Neighborhoods sprang up, complete with schools, department stores and gas stations. They no longer had to work in their neighborhoods, simply accessing the highway to the next town, or next town. Where people stayed in the neighborhoods in which they were born and raised, and neighbors knew not only them, but their parents and grandparents, this is rarely the case anymore. Neighborhood dynamics have changed radically since the highways have been put in.

What is prompting this is I've been watching a new neighborhood come into being. The truth is there was an old neighborhood there before, but it was razed, not only of the structures, but sadly the trees as well. Then I watched all winter as the new neighborhood appeared. Within the span of six months, it was substantially completed. Driving by a section today, they were rolling more grass down. People have been living there, and it looks like it has existed for years. There are hundreds of units. I'm amazed. Instant neighborhood. People living next door to each other in perfect obscurity.

The up side to this is the creation of a larger connectedness. My neighbor in Missippi taught me how to make spring rolls, being of Philipino decent. I am familiar with some of the little cultural quirks that exist in different geographical locations within our own country, like "Bless her heart...." The kids used to enjoy the different way people said "you", (as in a group)..."you'se guys", "y'all", "you'uns". The food, the traditions...

My own little neighborhood today is an old neighborhood, consisting of 'lake people'. Today their grandchildren play with each other as their children and themselves played in the lake together years past. We are far from the nearest highway exit. Its nice too.

Perhaps the next evolutionary step in the neighborhood will be the internet, web neighborhoods. Will be fun to watch....


Peace, neighbor

4 comments:

foo said...

Refering to the beginning of your post, I have to remind you that I'm not a woman...my name is Harry ;)

Love the Instahood piece. Good stuff. Maybe we can film a documentary about neighborhoods their disappearance of and the hanging on of during our rv trip?

The "spring rolls"? Did your neighbor call them "lumpia". Cause damn I love those and also had a Filipino friend in Navy teach me that, but I didn't record the recipe. If you have it, I'd sure like it!

One last thing. Been on the tip of my tongue for a while now. You sure you want to move? Lots of things you've written or spoken don't necessarily point to that. Is your heart really in this idea? Just wanted you to think about it and look to see if you are truly at peace with this idea...Only cause I love you and don't want you to regret a decision that perhaps your heart wasn't commited to. Okay, I'll never mention it again.

Unknown said...

Harry, I SO apologize for referring to you as a woman. :) Bless my heart.... :)

Yes - Lumpia, I had forgotten the name, and NO, I don't have the recipe, dammit. Those are the best things....and poncit, omg, the best....

I'm letting fate make the call on moving. I don't mind if you mention. Its a trade off, H. There are things I love about where I live, but spending 15 plus hours of my week in the car is a tough oatmeal chunk to swallow, too. So we'll just see how things pan out. I'll miss the lazy days hanging on the beach, and the after work swims, I know. One funny thing about living in an old neighborhood, people hold grudges for LONG TIME - we have heard a couple neighbors talk about another neighbor's wrongful action of over 30 years ago....

L. Gill said...

Elf,
Thanks for the hugs -n- kisses, I needed them today... I am so totally up for this roadtrip-BUT-it reminds me a little of a movie called "Almost Famous" did you ever see it? If not-OMG please tell X so I can give it to her-we own it. I will say no more...

On neighborhoods...what a great piece. I remember hearing "of" neighborhoods from my grandparents. They would speak fondly of going next door for a cup of sugar or an egg. Funny-as I love the concept...but have never done it! I actually hate it when people just knock and stop by. I know stopping by as a concept seems great to me too. I guess it would and does depend on who it is...right? I mean I wouldn't hate it if it were X. So, maybe I just have lame neighbors.

Of course where I grew up-there were houses (3) of them fairly close by-but not visible in those days-and certainly not within the range of hearing the chaos behind closed doors. Nope-it was the Cleaver family if anyone was watching. How things looked was of a huge significance-how they were wasn't ever important or valid.

Now I want some of those spring roll thingys....mmmm..Thanks for sharing!

~Paige

Anonymous said...

I'm better at being an online neighbor. Far friendlier.